Because our men are much less emotional and are much more visual. And as quickly as I can forget your picture, it is filed away in his mind, ready to be pulled back out whenever he so chooses.
Women who say these kinds of things confuse me. Has she never seen a picture of an attractive, barely-dressed man that she could bring to mind whenever she chooses? If she chooses not to, why?
From the website her husband is, not to put too fine a point on it, clearly every bit as affected by age as she has been. He's no tight young hard-bodied 20-something with a six pack himself. If she's still attracted to him because she loves him, why in the world does she imagine he doesn't feel the same? Why doesn't he demand that she block all images of hot young studs in swimsuits from her own social media network? Could it be that, unlike her, he has some measure of trust in their relationship?
If I were a man I'd find this extremely insulting (and I see some men have commented as much on the site).
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Date: 2014-06-15 07:20 pm (UTC)From:Women who say these kinds of things confuse me. Has she never seen a picture of an attractive, barely-dressed man that she could bring to mind whenever she chooses? If she chooses not to, why?
From the website her husband is, not to put too fine a point on it, clearly every bit as affected by age as she has been. He's no tight young hard-bodied 20-something with a six pack himself. If she's still attracted to him because she loves him, why in the world does she imagine he doesn't feel the same? Why doesn't he demand that she block all images of hot young studs in swimsuits from her own social media network? Could it be that, unlike her, he has some measure of trust in their relationship?
If I were a man I'd find this extremely insulting (and I see some men have commented as much on the site).