Me.

Point taken - but I don't mind them as much. They can judge me as much as they like, since there are very few people I give a rat's ass what their opinion is of me; I just don't want them interfering with my choices or anyone else's. (And, sometimes these people maybe really aren't judging, they're just saying what they would do. It's like gay rights supporters who feel the need to throw in they're straight - probably some are being snide, but others probably just want to demonstrate they're capable of understanding something they don't themselves do?)